Laura + Taj // A Mississauga Backyard Wedding

Have you been to any weddings this year yet? Usually by this time of the year I’ve worked quite a few and am swimming in galleries to edit and love stories to document. I have felt so incredibly sad for my 2020 couples that have had to postpone their weddings and joining my 2021 tribe of brides. A couple of my couples have decided to still get married this year and hold their receptions next year when they can celebrate with all their family and friends.

To be honest, I love this idea. I have always loved smaller weddings and as much fun as big weddings are, there’s something to be said about smaller, more intimate ceremonies and back yard weddings. As a wedding photographer in Ontario I feel so blessed to be a part of so many different styles of weddings! COVID or not, people fall in love and I am here for that!

Laura and Taj made the difficult decision to move their reception but didn’t want to wait to get married. They did a beautiful job bring their families and cultures together for their two wedding ceremonies. I have fallen in love with the Nikah ceremony and culture and being able to be there to capture their wedding was truly an honour.

We started at the MNN Mosque in Mississauga. Okay side note. So usually on a really sunny day I get to the venue and look around for spots I can work with given the full blaring sun. The guests make a comment about how beautiful the day is and inside I just wish for some clouds! The sunshine is so pretty but can be tricky to work with. There was no shade at all surrounding the mosque so I was a little concerned about shadows and squinting. Buuuuuuuut I LOVE how these images turned out. I gave myself a little pat on the back for using that full midday sun to my advantage! Plus it made for a great gallery because all of the outfits for the Nikah ceremony were bright and beautiful and it juxtaposed well with the Christian outfits and backyard ceremony that were later in the day!

I loved seeing these two families and these two cultures coming together to celebrate the love between Laura and Tajwer. I love that L+T made room in their lives for the traditions that are so important to them and their families. I am very excited for the reception next year where we can celebrate these two love birds even more!

I hope you enjoy these images as much as I do!

Doing Nothing in Jamaica

I love to travel. Warren and I did so much travelling in the first year of our marriage. Living in Europe will do that for you! Then our second year was spent living in Grenada and that was an adventure in and of itself, even though we never traveled off the island. The next five years were spent having three children and moving three more times. Needless to say there wasn’t really a spare moment to go on vacation.

We went on our first cruise and ended the five year travelling hiatus and now we are hooked. Our bucket list is miles long and we are only beginning to scratch the surface… literally! For Christmas this year I bought us a scratch map of the world so we could document our travels in a physical way. Now the itch to scratch is even higher than before!

In November we decided a little last minute to get away and take a nice break. We decided instead of a trip we would just have a vacation. To me they are very different things. Trips are full of touring and activities, exploring and adventuring. Vacations are when you sit on the beach and do nothing.

That is exactly what we did.

Well to be fair we also sat by the pool and did nothing, sat on a boat and did nothing, and sat on our balcony and did nothing. And we needed it. It’s so important to take care of yourself and your marriage. This is one thing I wish I had known when I got married. You have to keep tabs on your relationship, you have to make time for each other and for your marriage. I wish it was enough to just be in love. It’s not. Having a successful marriage takes hard work. These vacations that we go on without the kids are so fantastic but that’s not what makes our relationship successful. Only when we take the time for each other, even if we have to schedule the elusive one-on-one time, it’s worth it. It’s worth the daily effort and daily checks to make sure you are putting everything you can into your marriage.

Vacations are a really nice reset. They take you out of your every day life and give you a chance to breathe without the weight of responsibility and the distractions of every day life. I think when we usually go on a trip or vacation we feel like we have to spend our time site seeing and soaking in the new place we’re visiting. But sometimes it’s okay to just sit and be still.

So enjoy the pictures of us literally doing nothing and having one of the best vacations we’ve ever had.

More specifically, enjoy the pictures of us reading, drinking (virgin) pina coladas, dancing on boats, eating yummy food, and some bloopers from when I made Warren take 100000000 pictures of me!

A shout out to Ink Box Toronto for my awesome temporary tattoo! I loved it and I think I’ll be sporting them a lot more… maybe I’ll start a new trend like Where’s Waldo, but Where’s the Tattoo? instead!

We stayed at Iberostar Rose Hall Beach Resort in Montego Bay, Jamaica. We give it 3 stars. It was good, mostly clean but needs some updates, which they were doing while we were there. Decent beach, some seaweed, and a little rockier than I like. The food was hit or miss, there was some really good food and then there was some really mediocre food. Service was really good, and their on-site excursion/activity center Dressel Divers was the best part!