Monica + Stuart // An Unforgettable Distillery District Wedding

When I first spoke with Monica on the phone we talked for almost two hours. She was looking for a specific kind of photography but also someone that her and her fiance, Stuart, would get along with. One of the first things she told me was that their wedding was going to be very personal. They were having their buddy officiate, her wedding planner was a friend, and almost all of their vendors they had had a relationship with previously. I loved that she really knew what she wanted and she knew how important it was to connect on a personal level with her photographer.

At the end of that initial phone call, it felt like we had been friends forever and that is the dream right there for me. Having clients turned friends allows me to really capture the relationship! Monica was so great with communicating with me what she wanted while also trusting me to do what I do best! Which is take pictures while joking, dancing, and laughing with them!

From the moment she sent me a picture of her wedding dress I was hooked. She kept me in the loop with all of the planning and I was able to really build a bond with her and her wedding. I loved knowing all the details before showing up on the day! I always joke that in another life I would have been a wedding planner. I am basically obsessed with all things weddings and details and I still get so excited every time I walk into a ceremony space or reception area and see all the hard work and attention that went into planning.

I walked into Archeo and was just floored by how stunning it was. Monica and Christine from Flower Treasures pulled off a romantic, intimate, and fun wedding! I knew immediately it was going to be one of the best weddings of the year! And from a wedding photography standpoint, an absolute dream to photograph.

I’m getting ahead of myself! First I went to the AirBnB that Monica rented for getting ready in. This is always a tricky part of the day because not all houses have great light. Renting an AirBnB with beautiful natural light and without the clutter of a regular home gave us the perfect backdrop for bridal detail shots, getting dressed, bridal portraits, first look with brides maids (and fun pictures with bridesmaids in PJs!), and first look with dad. I would highly recommend paying looking into to reserving a house with natural light if you want pictures in the morning while you’re getting ready.

On the other hand, Stuart and his groomsmen got ready in his friend’s condo, and lucky for us, they had an awesome roof to take pictures on! If you’re using a smaller space for getting ready, see if there are alternate locations in your area that we can also do photos in!

Once we arrived at Archeo it was pretty much smooth sailing. Monica and Stuart opted for a first look (which I highly recommend… stay tuned for a post on why) and from there we did all of their family photos, birdal party photos, and bride and groom portraits! Monica was a princess in her gown, and we cannot forget the beautiful moment where they met Riley, their fur baby, for a quick wedding day family photo. Riley was so excited to see her mom and dad, it was such a sweet moment.

I’ll never forget Monica and Stuart’s ceremony. Archeo has a beautiful patio with amazing stringed bulbed lights, and of course, the signature red brick background of the Distillery District. Their vows were personal and touching, funny and sweet. They had their friend marry them which was the perfect tough to this personalized ceremonies. I love it when couples write their own vows, and I almost always cry… okay, I always tear up. I love love!

The wedding continued in it’s perfect, with one of the most delicious wedding meals, doughnut table, and as you know, I love some good (and bad!) dancing! And you know it’s a great wedding when your photographer doesn’t want to leave!

This beautiful wedding wouldn’t have been possible without the following incredible vendors

Coordination and Florals: Christine of Flower Treasures flowertreasures.com

Cake: Tasty Treats by Robyn @tastytreatsbyrobyn

DJ: Adam John goodkarmaevent.com

Hair: Jacqueline @jacquelinephoenix.hmua

Makeup: Anna lashesandlipstick.ca

Dress: Blush by Hailey Paige at Pearl Bridal pearlbridalhouse.com

Venue: Archeo, Distillery District archeo.ca

Bridesmaid Dresses: David’s Bridal davidsbridal.ca

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A Golden Engagement // Erin + Dan

Okay, how is it that I am pretty good at keeping up with my personal blog but when it comes to my professional blog and drag my feet? Anyway, that’s just been on my mind lately!

Back in September I booked my first wedding since rebranding and relaunching my photography business here in Waterloo! I was super excited to meet Erin and Dan, they were so easy going and relaxed, it was definitely a good start to working in this area! It’s always hard to start building this kind of business again and again and so I’m super excited that we are in the Kitchener Waterloo area to stay and I can develop lasting relationships in the wedding industry here and meet new, amazing clients!

So after booking, the fun begins! Erin and Dan are having a Niagara wedding next year and although they are excited, Erin had originally dreamed of getting married under a big tree before they fell in love with the Niagara vineyards (which are super timeless and a very good choice for weddings!). So her only request as far as locations went for their engagement shoot was a big tree. She still wanted to have those pictures so I kept that in mind as I looked for places.

While I was looking, I had volunteered to photograph a small race in Cambridge at Riverbluffs Park. When I pulled into the parking lot I saw these beautiful willow trees and I immediately thought of Erin! Plus the Slit Barn is really close to Riverbluffs Park and that is also an excellent spot for pictures (and weddings!). We met up there and although it was a little bit chilly, they powered through and we had a fun time and they got to watch me climb and jump and hide in bushes!

This is why I love engagement sessions and despite the advice to take the out of my wedding packages, I leave them in because I love this opportunity I get to work with a new couple. It helps me get to know how they photograph and how they work in front of the camera. It helps them warm up to me and get to know my style of shooting and be more comfortable in front of the camera on wedding day. So my advice as a wedding photographer is to do an engagement shoot with your photographer!!! I promise it’s worth it and you’ll get some really fun pictures. Some of my favourite pictures are still my engagement photos, even though that was 9 years ago and we rocked the white shirts and jeans!

TORONTO BRIDAL PORTRAITS // SHAVONNE

One of my biggest goals as a photographer is to make you feel as comfortable as possible in front of the camera. I want to know how you feel, if you're awkward or you'd rather be serious than smiley or the other way around. It helps me capture YOU if I know what you're feeling. When I took these bridals of my model in a gorgeous dress provided by Lea-Ann Belter Bridal, the first thing she told me was that she felt so much more comfortable smiling, and that she always felt a little awkward trying to smolder. This made our session so smooth. I knew how she was feeling and I knew that the more she was smiling, the better images I would capture. 

So my advice to you is BE YOURSELF! I'll be my goofy self behind the camera if you need help laughing, I'll tell you how to pose if you feel unsure of what to do, I'll be quiet in the background if a beautiful moment is unfolding. The pictures we capture together will look the best if we are all just who we are, and not trying to recreate something that doesn't suit your personality. That way you recognize the person in the picture! 

Dress: Lea-Ann Belter Bridal, Toronto, Ontario

Model: Shavonne (@shavonnemelissa)

Hair: Nicole Clement (@your.hair.guru)

Bouquet: The New Leaf, Toronto, Ontario

Location: Scarborough Bluffs