A Year in the Life of a Photograhper

One of the biggest blessings in my life is being able to do what I love for a living. While there are definitely areas of my job that I would rather not do, I LOVE being a photographer. Being able to celebrate life’s major milestones over and over again is indeed a blessing.

Being a photographer in Ontario has it’s own challenges. We have less impressive landscapes than other areas of Ontario but after travelling quite a bit this year, I’ve realized that without the distraction of mountains and canyons, oceans, and the focus of photography can actually be on people. I can focus on capturing those moments, creating those moments that you’ll remember and that you will be the focus of those memories.

Plus we get all the best seasons, especially those glorious fall colours! In spring we can go to the Guelph Arboretum for cherry blossoms in your engagement or family session. In the summer we can head to Burlington beach for some super fun beach sessions, In the fall, everywhere you look has the most beautiful reds and oranges and yellow. Then those winter sessions which are few and far between are so magical! We are so luck to have the array of different seasons here and being able to capture everything from engagements to weddings to maternity sessions, and family sessions, and solo sessions. I have the best job in the world.

And I could not do what I love without the support of all of the local wedding vendors in the areas. This year every wedding was incredible and so special shout outs go to Cellar52, Cambridge Mill, and Langdon Hall, thank you for having such incredible venues in the Kitchener-Waterloo Region!

Thank you to all my couples, families, and entrepreneurs for supporting my business. For trusting me with capturing your life and you as you are, thank you!

Jonathan + Kimberly // A Whitby Winter Wedding at Jubilee Pavilion

The year is 2020, weddings have been postponed and cancelled, we don’t know yet what our wedding season will bring this fall so THIS wedding might be the only 2020 wedding I actually get to shoot this year. I am grateful that I at least got to do this one (but I am still holding out hope that my fall couples still get to get married!).

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Jonathan and Kimberly got married on a very cold day in February this year! This wedding was a bit closer to my heart because Jonathan is my youngest brother-in-law! I was so honoured that they wanted me to photograph their beautiful marriage, I loved being able to have that connection with them. I try to develop a good relationship with all of my couples, I find that everyone is much more relaxed and comfortable when we know each other.

J+K got married on Valentine’s day weekend in Whitby, Ontario at Jubilee Pavilion. We were hoping for a good amount of snow but a mild winter day. We got neither of those things! Instead all of our beautiful snow mostly melted, and we were out taking pictures in the coldest and windiest day known to man! At least the sun was shining! Our bride and groom (especially our bride) were troopers though. They knew that the pictures were important and being outside by the beautiful lake was definitely worth it!

They had a beautiful first look with just the two of them. They decided to write letters to each other and read them back to back before turning around and seeing each other for the first time! It was such a sweet moment and I loved the mix of laughter and emotions. I LOVE first looks! I’m a huge cheerleader for the first look but more on that in another post.

We had originally scheduled an hour and a half for photos but given the weather, we buckled down and got them all done in under 45 minutes! That’s the thing about weddings, especially in months where the weather is unpredictable. We plan for the best case scenario but knowing that it might now go as planned. Luckily I can be speedy when I want to be and work well under pressure so even though it would have been nice to have more time outside, we got exactly what we needed in the shorter time frame and then everyone wet inside to warm up and the groomsmen went out and got hot pizza for all of us!

I have to take a minute and praise the wedding party, especially our women, because in case I have’t told you yet, it was COLD. They stuck it out, they took their coats on and off and I was so proud of them! And our bride! In her beautiful stunning wedding dress, she was fantastic!

After we got all cozy inside, the rest of the day went by so smoothly! That’s what happens when you have a wedding planner! Ethan was the secret star of the day. I say secret because the best wedding planners and co-ordinators make sure that you don’t even know if something went wrong!

Jonathan and Kimberly were married in a beautiful ceremony under a gorgeous arch made by her brother. Vows were said, laughs and tears were shed, papers were signed, and the marriage was sealed with a kiss! *HAPPY DANCE* They got married!

Family pictures were taken, food was eaten, speeches were made, people sang, the beloved shoe game was played, the arty was started! You know how much I love dancing! I love being a wedding photographer while people are dancing, the movement in the photos just makes me so happy! Our bride changed into her reception dress (YAY RECEpTION DRESSES) which meant she could bust a move way more comfortably and we danced the night away!

We ended the night with a beautiful sparkler send off and off went the happy couple!

VENDORS

Venue// Jubilee Pavilion jubileepavilion.com

Photographer // Sara Whitsitt Light and Love Photography

Wedding Coordinator // Ethan Gill

Florals // Connie Maglioli

Hair & Make-up // Katie Lynn

Wedding Dress // Antoinette Bridal Boutique

Bridesmaid Dresses // One Love One Dream Bridal

Cake // Ethan Gill

DJ // Dave Stephens

The P Family // A Toronto Lifestyle Family Session

Okay do you know how I love gushing? I’m a huge fan of adjective. Like I really, really like them. Now you’ve been warned because I cannot help but gush about this family session.

First of all their house. I walked in to this stunning house in Toronto. From floor to ceiling I was already giddy. The natural light, the decor, it was all beautiful and I couldn’t wait to capture it all! Seriously… just wait until you scroll to the pictures of baby S’s nursery. Is it possible to be jealous of a baby? Well I am. Giving homage to her half Australian parentage, there are adorable pictures of baby animals hanging over her crib, and the cutest mobile I’ve ever seen. I loved it all. It almost makes me want to have another baby just so I can have this nursery… almost.

Second, their dog. Don’t hate me… I’m not a huge animal person. It takes me a long time to warm up to animals. But for some reason, Ocean had me at hello. She was the sweetest pup ever and baby S is so lucky to grow up with such an awesome best friend. Again, jealous of this baby.

And third, the family. Oh this family was so sweet! You could tell how in love and obsessed they were with baby S, and how could they not be? She was seriously the best behaved baby during any photo shoot I have ever done! I typically set aside 2-3 hourrs for a newborn/baby family session because sometimes the baby needs to eat, poop, pee, change, stop crying etc. But baby S was happy and content to be doted on by her parents and we were done in about 45 minutes. We had one little eating break but even then we got some great shots during that! Oh and mom and dad were so in love and so comfortable in front of the camera. Just before I would give a direction they would do exactly what I wanted them to, and that would be interact with each other and with baby S.

It’s hard sometimes to break the habit of the traditional family photo shoot where everyone is looking at the camera smiling in every picture. I love it when families just talk and laugh with each other. Those are the pictures worth having. Smiling ones are lovely too, but being a family is what you want to remember!

This family was a dream and I can’t stop staring at these photos!

In-home session tips:

• Have the rooms that you want to take pictures in cleaned is great, having your whole house clean is even better. I know it’s difficult but trust me, your stress level will go way down!

• Prepare for baby accidents and roll with them! Remember I have three children so you never need to apologize to me about messes and/or crying babies!

• Interact with each other as much as possible, I’ll let you know when I want you to look at the camera.

• Houses look different at different times of the day. When booking your session pay attention to your rooms and when they get the best light, it makes a world of difference!

• Be comfortable! You’re in your home, a safe, cozy place, these pictures are not as “formal”

TORONTO BRIDAL PORTRAITS // SHAVONNE

One of my biggest goals as a photographer is to make you feel as comfortable as possible in front of the camera. I want to know how you feel, if you're awkward or you'd rather be serious than smiley or the other way around. It helps me capture YOU if I know what you're feeling. When I took these bridals of my model in a gorgeous dress provided by Lea-Ann Belter Bridal, the first thing she told me was that she felt so much more comfortable smiling, and that she always felt a little awkward trying to smolder. This made our session so smooth. I knew how she was feeling and I knew that the more she was smiling, the better images I would capture. 

So my advice to you is BE YOURSELF! I'll be my goofy self behind the camera if you need help laughing, I'll tell you how to pose if you feel unsure of what to do, I'll be quiet in the background if a beautiful moment is unfolding. The pictures we capture together will look the best if we are all just who we are, and not trying to recreate something that doesn't suit your personality. That way you recognize the person in the picture! 

Dress: Lea-Ann Belter Bridal, Toronto, Ontario

Model: Shavonne (@shavonnemelissa)

Hair: Nicole Clement (@your.hair.guru)

Bouquet: The New Leaf, Toronto, Ontario

Location: Scarborough Bluffs